(for the love of this song)
the only thing that ive got to say is i will always be here for you no matter what and
if it makes you feel better, well at least he's not married yet right?
if it makes you feel better, go have a good cry and then its time for some self-reflection
if it makes you feel better, read this
How do I detest thee?(cry all you want, but somehow, some truth can be extracted from the article )
By Sumiko Tan, 20th April 2008, The Sunday Times.
"When love dies, every petty episode of your life together is exhumed in detail, money always enters the picture, tears are spilled and venom spewed.
More debilitating are break-ups that don't conclude with a firm and final full-stop but a hesitant, half hearted semi-colon, where things get dragged out and there is no finality but tears.
You know, break-ups where both side know they should stop seeing each other but don't really want to; where one part of you wants to let go but the other wants to cling on; where residual feelings keep clouding the picture, where you promise not to call anymore but still can't fight the urge to send a "u ok?" SMS because you "still care" and, after all, it's just a harmless SMS, right? (wrong); where you split up because there's not future but pledge to "still be friends".
I don't know about you, but I prefer being angry to being sad.
Besides, unless you are both truly big-hearted and have also both moved on to better relationships, it is near impossible for ex-es to "be friends". Just be thankful if things are civil.
THERE are only so many reasons a relationships end and I can think of five:
1. You weren't really that into each other in the first place and the reality sinks in after you have exhausted the early bouts of physical desire.
2. You love each other but your personality clash.
3. One party - or both parties - betrays the other and forgiveness is not possible.
4. One party - or both parties - no longer loves each other. Sometimes, no external stimulus is needed. Love simply dies.
5. You love each other but can't have a life together, for whatever reasons.
Break-ups brings out the worst in people.
For years, my revenge fantasy was to walk up to a particularly hateful ex and fling a glass of red wine onto his white office shirt. I never got around doing it, not that I actually would.
Such spiteful behaviour is stupid and childish and always leaves you feeling small and mean. The pettiness also negates all the good times you had together, which is sad because how can someone you once cared about suddenly become your No. 1 foe?
The hottest love has the coldest end, Socrates observed more than 2,000 years ago. Things haven't changed. Civilised break-ups remain rare."
- Page 14, Reflect. The Sunday Times.
if it makes you feel better, read cleo may 2008 page 117
if it makes you feel better, this blog entry will be up for some time so you can always drop by here and be reminded that hey you're never alone. just look around you, you have a wonderful life ahead of you
so hey, have a good sleep everynight, i dont want those dark circles/eyebags/pimples to ruin your face. your pretty face that is.
:)
